tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post4698206575708264532..comments2023-10-31T06:03:06.285-07:00Comments on Pensievity: In which I'm a little deep for a FridayUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-17233472901156503072009-10-01T16:01:58.498-07:002009-10-01T16:01:58.498-07:00I totally agree with the bored thing. Well, I use...I totally agree with the bored thing. Well, I used to. Now I have 3 callings and early nesting keeping me in gear. Maybe its just late spring cleaning. Oh no wait, its "my toddler knows how to strip and poo in the corner, then step in it and run all over the carpets." yep less boredom. I don't know if its always more fulfilling though.rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02366992997140067774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-7039911829499527672009-09-28T17:38:57.982-07:002009-09-28T17:38:57.982-07:00Hi,
My name is Janelle and I am an administrator ...Hi,<br /><br />My name is Janelle and I am an administrator at mormonwoman.org. I tried to email you at your watoozi email account, but maybe I spelled it wrong. I would love to talk to you. Could you email me at mormonwoman(at)gmail(dot)com?<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />JanelleJanellehttp://www.mormonwoman.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-43695600181262189622009-09-27T20:44:16.533-07:002009-09-27T20:44:16.533-07:00Well, mywonderfulfriend, you know I'm no good ...Well, mywonderfulfriend, you know I'm no good at advice. Besides saying I love the heck out of you, I have only one thing to say:<br /><br />I love the butt picture.Harmonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14260111850169885961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-76734130022779885352009-09-27T15:45:02.345-07:002009-09-27T15:45:02.345-07:00Oh I get this. I so get this. I went through a p...Oh I get this. I so get this. I went through a period of time when I was transitioning from having been needed, deperately and constantly so, to just being...a wife. And while Neil needed me and there were joys to be found in my new life and in serving him, it was so different...so other. It wasn't that my life as it was was so horrible and depressing, it was the difference...the change. It took time to adjust, and the time in between was rough. I wish I'd recognized what was going on so I could've done something about it. Instead I just moped for a year or so (okay, maybe a lot longer than that...ahem...).<br /><br />I love that you've identified what's going. Wherever this depth takes you, you seem to be well on your way!Kimberly Vanderhorsthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01653757517652257445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-92219190758561459152009-09-27T14:09:36.606-07:002009-09-27T14:09:36.606-07:00I'm feeling like after reading your very well-...I'm feeling like after reading your very well-phrased post and all these women's comments - it's pretty darn good to know that this is normal, and common, and temporary (thanks, DeNae!).<br /><br />But it still stinks, 'cause it's really confusing. <br /><br />Ruts scare me.<br /><br />I love that you and hub made a Floaty Boat list. Great idea. So great an idea. May steal this very great idea.<br /><br />Also - did I miss it in previous posties? What is your new calling that is your favoritest ever?<br /><br />Oh, AND - you know, maybe women are like lamps. We're very bright and pretty and come in all shapes and sizes...but sometimes we get turned off. Cool down. Then we get switched on again and all is illuminated.<br /><br />Thanks, That Girl for this post. And everyone else for the comments. I learned.Stepper the Mightyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01491073128271887969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-71386783835814964712009-09-26T14:48:51.169-07:002009-09-26T14:48:51.169-07:00This is just one small, and admittedly maybe stupi...This is just one small, and admittedly maybe stupid suggestion: When I felt like my schedule was getting into a funk, I had a planning session (much like what you and your hubby did) where I decided what some of my goals were and then figured out ways to work them into my weekly schedule. (The schedule is just a guide; I don't freak if I do different stuff.) Anyway, I built in for example, a service day, where me and my kids do something nice for someone else. Sometimes it's as simple as baking cookies and taking them to someone's house, sometimes we buy flowers and drop them off at someone's work, collect toys and take them to a shelter, etc. Anyway, it helps you feel "useful", teaches the kids a good habit, and gets you OUT of the house. Don't know if that idea would be adaptable or useful to what you're feeling, but thought I'd throw it out there just in case.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11486223394459963669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-25244965490655162182009-09-26T13:37:21.516-07:002009-09-26T13:37:21.516-07:00I spend all my free (and not so free) time as a pr...I spend all my free (and not so free) time as a pregnant woman sneaking in naps. Definitely not thinking about higher things.<br />Sounds like a bit of culture shock...where the world/ward doesn't have immediate needs that require 95% of your time. It's hard to go from being needed to not so much.janelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18428923613535036325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-54048603631186681852009-09-26T12:55:57.885-07:002009-09-26T12:55:57.885-07:00UH HUH. Totally get it. Totally. It feels good ...UH HUH. Totally get it. Totally. It feels good to be gotten.Heather of the EOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14607422301391841377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-84314061116710892452009-09-26T12:52:09.450-07:002009-09-26T12:52:09.450-07:00OK -- I don't know why I spelled boredom "...OK -- I don't know why I spelled boredom "boredome" -- I am completely embarassed since some super smart people write and read this blog... I will hang my head in shame and slink away now. Thank you.Kathy Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12165558590777710231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-74011308580344393222009-09-26T12:50:14.312-07:002009-09-26T12:50:14.312-07:00One word: PTO
(or is that really three words smoo...One word: PTO <br />(or is that really three words smooshed into a psuedoword?)<br /><br />Anyway, once you sign up -- there is no turning back... they getcha and keep ya. Then you don't have time for boredome.<br /><br />Oh, and for the record... I would officially challenge your boredome. Instead of being bored, I think you are just being... well, pregnant. Kinda runs with the territory. <br /><br />Hang in there. Love you!!! And totally love your literary genius!Kathy Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12165558590777710231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-1223254917965593902009-09-26T12:26:23.067-07:002009-09-26T12:26:23.067-07:00I don't have anything cool to say, like the ot...I don't have anything cool to say, like the others, but I wanted to leave you a comment to let you know that I feel this way very frequently, and that it often includes talking with my husband (while I cry, truthfully).<br /><br />We'll figure it out, you and me, eventually. Soon!Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16913479841360204974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-28003755580569267072009-09-26T12:01:24.909-07:002009-09-26T12:01:24.909-07:00Boy oh boy do I get the whole "I used to look...Boy oh boy do I get the whole "I used to look forward to home days" bit. Now every day is a home day. Sometimes I miss having a job just because it's kind of like ... I don't know ... time off. <br /><br />Weird, huh?<br /><br />Love you oodles of poodles. Get unbored. Have fun. Play with HSM stickers. (STICKERS!)Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14527622301735368452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-53364640819679207252009-09-26T09:32:03.279-07:002009-09-26T09:32:03.279-07:00I think DeNae nailed it. And I think I always feel...I think DeNae nailed it. And I think I always feel exactly like this after major moves. They put me in a bit of a funk every time. It's like you put the last unpacked piece of whatever in it's place, and you've been so busy doing that, and then it's done and you sit back and say, "What now?" I think it's great that you talked it over with your husband like that. It's awesome having a friend all the time.Melanie Jacobsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02489615939726209573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-22828397412776426752009-09-26T09:31:42.163-07:002009-09-26T09:31:42.163-07:00I often feel this way, and I completely understand...I often feel this way, and I completely understand. Sometimes I feel like I'm in a slump and I can't get out...blah. Good luck! And if it helps, I think you're amazing!Brittany Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05986722431429592182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-10007746333172757562009-09-26T08:24:42.492-07:002009-09-26T08:24:42.492-07:00I totally get you.
Well, I mean, after I got my ...I totally get you. <br /><br />Well, I mean, after I got my head around the whole "grocery stores with free babysitting" thing. Because ARE YOU KIDDING ME?<br /><br />Anyway...<br />I think these phases come and go in our lives. I'm in one now, too, after just being released as YWP and my kids all going back to school. <br />The best remedy I've learned is to serve someone. It sounds trite, but it works for me. <br /><br />Now if I'd just get on that...Randihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11851220760568533019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-78508889831399628592009-09-26T08:16:16.263-07:002009-09-26T08:16:16.263-07:00I know what you mean. And I think it is deeper th...I know what you mean. And I think it is deeper than just hobbies or keeping busy. You probably are starting to wonder about your own development as a person. I think it is so normal.<br /><br />A few years ago, after being home with my kids for 18 years, I decided to go back to teaching just to make some extra dough for my freshman-at-BYU son. It turned out to be fulfilling for me beyond what I might have guessed. <br /><br />You just never know what is bubbling up in your heart and mind until you let the spirit tell you.<br /><br />Good luck, and stop thinking so much! :)Kazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04411131948607000725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-91783830709799371032009-09-26T07:56:36.027-07:002009-09-26T07:56:36.027-07:00Girl, I feel ya.
I've been on the overwhelmed...Girl, I feel ya.<br /><br />I've been on the overwhelmed side of late, but still bored and putzy. <br /><br />Superman was out of town this entire week, and I decided to do something about it. I knew I'd go CRAZY sitting around all week, so I made plans for the week. Had a girl's night or two, which forced me to tidy the house. Went to museums and park and lunch with friends.......it was fantastic. One of the best weeks I've had in a long time, to be honest. Except for the missing Superman part. But I was almost too busy to miss him!<br /><br />Half of me wants to tell you to pick a small project and go to town. The other half of me is saying that in 6 months your life is gonna get a little crazy again and you should just enjoy this down time. All of me is telling me that YOU know what you need, and you'll do what you need to do.Wonder Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01286006629537084653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-795809398777089462009-09-26T07:55:13.656-07:002009-09-26T07:55:13.656-07:00I forgot to say, in the midst of all this angst an...I forgot to say, in the midst of all this angst and thought provoking-ness - you still make me laugh. I love that about you!!! Miss you bunches....Mommadj5https://www.blogger.com/profile/02866766047743831712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-12717170542635944302009-09-26T07:52:33.941-07:002009-09-26T07:52:33.941-07:00I love your comment on how being a great mom is su...I love your comment on how being a great mom is supposed to be fulfilling. Welcome to the world of motherhood (not that you haven't already been there - but you know what I mean....)You have hit the nail on the head my dear, this is one of the greatest challenges of full-time moms - fighting the boredom, the SAMENESS and trying not to feel guilty about being "bored". We love our families, right? Why isn't that "enough"? Yeah, yeah, you will have a season when the kids are "grown" and you can find fulfilling work using that degree, but in the meantime....this is why Heavenly Father gave us GIRLFRIENDS!!! Seriously - plan something with them - girls night out - at least once a month - this is minimum - maybe weekly if you can - doing fun stuff and service stuff. Organize something in your community - whatever. You'll be surprised how it will help! DaNae is right - this is normal and can lead to depression if one isn't careful. Why in the world do you think I do community theatre?? :-)Mommadj5https://www.blogger.com/profile/02866766047743831712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-88390010847968546992009-09-26T06:00:57.008-07:002009-09-26T06:00:57.008-07:00hhhmmm, so well put, and I loved all the comments....hhhmmm, so well put, and I loved all the comments. You will find something:)Lanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09393672416950722780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-81782425917511301512009-09-25T23:46:02.878-07:002009-09-25T23:46:02.878-07:00I GET YOU. I LOVE that your hubby will sit and ana...I GET YOU. I LOVE that your hubby will sit and analyze these things with you. I never have anyone to psycho-analyze with...partly why I CAN'T WAIT for you to come for a visit!\"/ I need my LONG awaited dose of THAT GIRL!Kim L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02993255942763106527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-91042168161444188332009-09-25T23:44:52.838-07:002009-09-25T23:44:52.838-07:00We have moved four times in a little over two year...We have moved four times in a little over two years and I will tell you that every time without fail, once all the excitement has died down and I am back to what my life will resemble for a long time to come, I get that same exact feeling. (boy that was a long sentence).<br /><br />And I agree with DeNae - if you don't do something about it, you WILL slowly make your way down the rocky path of depression.<br /><br />This time around I have MADE myself busy. I have taken it upon myself to take my husband to work every day. This ensures that I <b>start</b> the day.<br /><br />p.s. Home days drive EVERYONE insane if it is every day. I had a "me" day the other day and made Isabel just come along for the ride (a small triumph).<br /><br />Not sure if any of my ramblings will make you feel better, but it was nice to recognise that other people feel the same way as I do.Helhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12024471761531493995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-89210294002208850422009-09-25T21:37:16.428-07:002009-09-25T21:37:16.428-07:00Has it been 6 weeks since the move?Has it been 6 weeks since the move?Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15908320764726278174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-20920609976492106052009-09-25T20:57:16.303-07:002009-09-25T20:57:16.303-07:00Oh man, I know how you feel I just haven't be...Oh man, I know how you feel I just haven't been feelinga ton of enjoyment from the hobbies I usually really enjoy. Even blogging. :) I'm not sure why, but I'm sure it will blow over. At least, I hope it will.<br /><br />And I hope it will for you, too. I think service is a huge key, and maybe I don't feel needed enough yet? Being in a new place and all. We'll see.<br /><br />And did you have to go and remind me about Basha's? I think they're the only place on earth that does the babysitting thing for grocery shopping. They are BRILLIANT.Lara Neveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08351324888724799014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2973923536525380696.post-4292832333968512462009-09-25T19:51:36.442-07:002009-09-25T19:51:36.442-07:00Wow, I kind of feel unworthy to be posting after D...Wow, I kind of feel unworthy to be posting after DeNae. Because I think that comment was directed at me. Because I know EXACTLY how you feel. <br /><br />There are so many things that I want to do. Can I just hijack your box for a second? So, I decided to have a yard sale, pretty spur of the moment. Then I found out that my SIL has lost the insurance that covers their daughters psorisis medication, which, without insurance is about 1200 bucks a month. Crazy, I know. So then I decided, why not make it a bake/yard sale and raise some money to help out, right. Except that I discovered that it is impossible to bake a batch of cookies, a batch of brownies, 2 batches of rice krispie treats and 2 batches of cupcakes; get junk ready for a yard sale; make signs; AND care for 4 children. <br /><br />And I'm annoyed at myself for not being able to do it all. Because I really, really want to. Because as much as I love building blocks, the whole yard sale thing sounds funner. <br /><br />Okay, I think I'm done now. But, I really get what you are saying.Rachel Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14426183215612921121noreply@blogger.com