When someone does you a favor for which you did not ask, do you make specifications?
i.e. if you're going to fold my laundry, please do it this way ... if you're going to cut my grass, don't forget the side yard ... if you're going to make me dinner, please don't make seafood ... if you're going to help me out, will you actually help me out?
My philosophy at the moment is: embarrassment wins. I can't bring myself to make qualifications or requests when someone is serving me out of the Christian goodness of their hearts - and then I go back and re-do it the way I like it.
Am I wrong? What do you think?